To know whether she loves you or not?

Today, guys find it more difficult to know whether the girl whom they are dating or with whom they are seriously in love shares the same feeling for him or not. Now-a-days, girls have made it trend to flirt out with guys openly. In case your girl too is putting you in a confusing state of “she does” or “she does not” then here are some tips to figure out whether she really loves you or she is just being nice to you.

Signs to Know She Loves You

Given below are some ways to know if she likes you and want to carry on a long-term relation with you, very important:

• If she cares for you and always take interest in your activities then she truly loves you.
• If you come to know from her family and friends that she often brags about you shows her love for you.
• If a girl tries to get closer to you by touching your hands, shoulders or cheeks means she likes you.
• If she keeps staring you when the conversation is on depicts that she likes you and want to say something but is shy of that.
• When a girl blushes on your talks and keep praising you in front of your friends then she loves you.
• When a girl does not respond to the messages or calls given by you it means she is trying to avoid you.
• If she doesn’t want to declare it in public or make some excuses when caught by your close friend in public by saying, “ he’s my friend”, shows her disinterest in you.
• If she never praises you and keeps counting flaws in you means she’s trying to dissolve the relation by taking these flaws as the base.
• A girl is deeply in love with a guy is she accepts his family no matter how they are.
• When she talks to you very nicely after a long time means she is in need of you and is talking to you merely for your company as she has no other solution.
• If she always encourage and motivate you to go ahead with your plans then she is an ideal lover and is sincerely attached with what you want from your life.
• If she wants to spend some time with you and want to help you out in every project or assignment means her love for you.

How to know he loves you or not?

Girls are a bit apprehensive when it comes to their relationship with a guy. It has been noted that men hesitate to express their love or feelings and end up laying a false belief for themselves. It is not only difficult but even more complex to analyze what a man desires and what is going in his mind. The question whether he loves me or not usually bothers every girl. But, with one ideal solution it is possible to know the actual love of the guy for you.

Tips to Know if He Loves You

Don’t worry damsels, here are some useful tips to know whether your mate/partner or lover really loves you or not:

• A very obvious one when he takes interests in your matters like work schedule, it means he is really concerned with you and loves you.
• Whenever a guy keeps a track on your habits, remembers whatever you do and say simply indicates his love for you.
• When a guy wants to spend more time with you, dates out with you at places of your choice and share the your favorite pastimes then he is madly in love with you.
• If he gives more importance to his friends even if you are sick or in need of him shows his lack of interest in you.
• Changing of topic when you discuss about your future with him is not a good sign of a healthy relationship with your love.
• If he doesn’t want to spend time with you or don’t ever want to go out with you in public and never introduces you to his friends mean he does not love you.
• When he calls you or message you just to chitchat with you means he deeply loves you and was finding any reason to talk to you.
• If he is really concerned about you and loves you then he would always take out time from his busy schedule.
• When he keeps looking you when you are around and suddenly takes off his eyes when you look at him shows he’s in love with you.
• When he praises about you to his friends, family and others means he truly loves you.
• His every action will make you believe he loves you.
• If he changes his plans or cancels them last minute then he is surely avoiding you.
• If he is trying to be friendly with you and tries to make an effort to know more about you shows signs of love for you.
• You can make out from a person’s eyes. The person in love with you has special shine in his eyes when he’s talking to you.

Do you have any other opinion in this regard?

Valentine's day ideas and tips

If you are aspiring for an exquisite Valentine’s Day then just go through the touching valentine ideas or tips to make an ideal valentine’s day. These are just straight forward ideas and tips for valentine’s day.

1. A simple ‘I Love You’ with a kiss can set an awesome mood for a Valentine’s Day.
2. Decorate his/her house with hearts, bows and ribbons.
3. Make arrangements for surprise flower bouquets.
4. Cook a dinner for two and decorate the room with heart-shaped candles.
5. Gift him/her with velvet full of fresh Valentine day’s chocolates.
6. A romantic note asking him/her to be your valentine.
7. Send sweet love quotes.
8. Make your own Valentine’s Day card which expresses your feelings.
9. Create a scrapbook ‘recollection collection’ and fill it with love letters, photographs, cherished mementos, etc.
10. A CD of his/her favorite songs.
11. A jewelry gift is awesome. A heart shaped locket for the lady love and a silver bracelet for him is just perfect.
12. Plan a special dinner for him/her either in a garden or a boat. A candle light dinner is just unforgettable.
13. Pamper your sweetheart by gifting her a spa session.
14. Pot a plant that will grow and loom for her.
15. Spend loads of quality time with him/her and clandestine visits to romantic gateways.
16. Gift him/her a nice cell phone for keeping endless communication.
17. Gift her a beautiful evening gown or apparel.
18. Dance with your valentine on Martina McBride’s ‘Valentine’.
19. Include a chocolate dessert in your romantic dinner.
20. Create a love song CD full of Valentine’s Day songs.
21. Send flowers at workplace or home to him/her.
22. If he/she loves gadgets then gift a digital camera.

FROM WORST TO BEST - by: Amanda Williams

by: Amanda Williams

My boyfriend is the world’s worst gift giver. He either always forgets and goes out at the last minute, buys wilted flowers, or the worst chocolate ever. He doesn’t mean to he just can’t seem to get good gifts.

Finally, last Valentine’s Day, I decided that I was going to force him to get me a quality gift. We made a pact to actually make each other’s gifts. I spent two whole days on his gift and card. I was getting kinda’ nervous when the day before Valentine’s Day I saw him cutting out little red and pink hearts from construction paper when I wasn’t looking.

Once Valentine’s Day rolled around and since my guy had to work I spent most of the day home alone. I was kinda’ depressed all day long as I thought of the gift he was going to give me. I know its the thought that counts, and that he always meant well, but around noon a delivery guy stopped by with a wilted rose for me. I was so upset.

Aaron called me later from work and asked did I want to go out to dinner. I said sure and went to take a shower. After I got out I found a card under the edge of the bathroom door. When I opened the door there was no one there. I opened the envelope and inside was a hand made card with the red and pink heart glued to it. The card read, “Love is big, love is tall, look for me in the hall.” So I went to the hallway and there taped to the wall was a second envelope and a rose. This time I was lead to the kitchen. There in the refrigerator was a third letter and a box of my favorite chocolates.

I was then led to the bedroom, and a bed covered with petals. Fresh ones might I add. I was getting so excited. I the center of the bed I found one final letter. This letter led me out my balcony where my boyfriend sat with the dinner he had made at his sister’s house earlier that day (he had taken the day off) lit by candlelight. He even had my favorite
song playing in the background. It was the most romantic night of my life and it totally made up for all the bad gifts I had ever gotten.