Happy Valentine's Day

It’s a special day , but when it comes to give gifts and you just forget to have it for someone – The Last Minute Come’s Tense. So these are some popular choices to give last minute gifts to your Valentine .

1.  Love Candies

Heart Love Candies

Love Candies would not be a bad move to make your Valentine happy . Flavors matters upon the taste of your beneficiary . Always choose color Candies with some extra fancy packing – Benefits : Cheap & Sweet

2.  Dark Chocolate

Dark Chocolate

Dark Chocolate have some chemistry inside for love . So always pick dark heart chocolates , preferably with some colorful or just red coating. Always try to give some smoothie flavor chocolate. It would rather bit luxurious but lovely.

3. Some Pinching Words

Valentine Cards

Some cards with different thoughts which could compare your Valentine within the daily life actually grabs smile on the face of your love. Do not hit her/him emotionally but with slight touch of humor . This would be ice-breaker of isolation.

4. Scent of Love

Perfumes & Scents

Gift of fragrance is always last long . Because its a daily consuming product which always gives you feeling existing of your love with you . So this type of product will really hit some points on the board. This could be quite expensive but meaningful.

5. Red Roses

Red Roses

Nothing is better than flowers and from flowers the best are rose flowers . Always choose red roses with fragrance not artificial. This is natural and one of the most special present ever ! Bring your gifts with red roses , give a dinner with roses . Give chocolates with roses .

Always respect your Valentine for the whole life !

Valentine's Day 5 things i hate

1. Imposing of the concept
As February arrives everywhere turned to be red and intentionally forced to accept this concept of Valentines . People have certain views in their own country , majority of Pakistan does not want to accept this concept of Valentine due to their custom values . Despite of this , one group of people investing in this to create a hype of Valentine for accepting / imposing.

2. The only day to share love
Fine it’s a love day to share your happiness with your parents , spouse , children or most preferably with your girl friend. However, this is not the final or last day to celebrate with your love ones . In our Muslims teaching ‘ Every Muslim should have to be polite, loving and caring for every human being ‘ 365 days a year. So this day probably turns out to be a drama day.

3. Muhabbatein Affects – Classes Bunked
In Pakistan the actual spark of Valentine came after the Muhabbatein movie of Shahrukh Khan & Aishwayria Roy. This impacts on students of colleges and universities on a very large scales which ultimately results a very high bunk rate from academic classes on 14th February .

4. Commercialism
Commercialism is in accordance with the imposing concept of Valentine’s day. Majorly businesses such as , courier services , bakeries , magazines , news channels , book shops , restaurants , café’s and the most important florists have made this day so much commercialized , which have affected the cuteness and simplicity of this day.

5. Because it’s in Pakistan
Yes , the most important thing is that “A VALENTINES DAY IN PAKISTAN” . Just imagine how we use to celebrate 14th August on streets , Eid , Eid Milad-un-Nabi and basant . We don’t even have any limits to celebrate any event in Pakistan . So this could be dangerous to celebrate Valentine’s day with freedom in Pakistan.

Chapman, who teaches middle school science, said he never thought, “‘What am I going to do?’ It was ‘What are we going to do.’ … It was one step at a time.” The 28-year-old groom will be by his bride’s side when her father wheels her down the aisle.The bride has refused to name the woman who caused the accident, who will also be attending the wedding. “She was tragically hurt, mentally and emotionally,” Friedman said. “And I was tragically hurt, physically.”

In the past year, Friedman has become active, learning wheelchair rugby and texting with friends using her knuckles instead of her fingers.For his part, Chapman can’t wait to be married. “I’ll be happy and relieved to see her coming down the aisle,” he says. “It’s something we’ve been working on for quite a while.”The two will tie the knot on Friday..

While young women are more affected by their relationship status—that is, whether they are in one or not—young men are more sensitive to a relationship’s quality, such as how supportive or straining it is, LiveScience reported.

“Simply being in a relationship may be more important for a woman’s identity,” said lead researcher Robin Simon of Wake Forest University in North Carolina. Having a relationship “is something that is emphasized constantly for women. Just pick up any woman’s magazine.”

But once in a relationship, the romance’s strengths are particularly helpful to men, and its difficult periods are particularly hard on them, Simon told LiveScience.

In the study, 1,611 men and women between the ages of 18 and 23 answered questions about their relationships and their own emotional states, including rating symptoms of depression and substance abuse. The questions were asked twice, two years apart, helping researchers deduce that emotional states were largely influenced by a relationship, not the other way around.

Rocky relationships were associated with equal amounts of depression in young men and women, and significantly greater problems with substance abuse and dependence among men. The correlative findings were published in the June issue of the Journal of Health and Social Behavior.

Why relationships affect young women and men differently is not yet clear. But the finding contradicts the conventional view of women as the more emotionally involved romantic partner.

No matter their game face, men are not stoically impervious to a relationship’s ebbs and flows, Simon said.

Researchers at the Montclair State University in New Jersey found that teenagers` bonding with their parents, especially with mothers, influence their romantic life in adulthood.

“Parents` relationships with their children are extremely important and that`s how we develop our ability to have successful relationships as adults, our parents are our models,” said Constance Gager, who led the study.

“So if kids are not feeling close with their parents then they are probably not going to model the positive aspects of that relationship when they reach adulthood,” Gager was quoted as saying by LiveScience.

The findings, according to the researchers, highlighted the importance of the parent-child bond for building relationships later in life.

However, they found that the strength of the parent-child connection later in adolescence, after the age of 14, did not seem to influence the children`s romantic relationships when they were older.

This might be because late adolescence is too late to have an impact, Gager said.

“Adolescents may be more fully formed by age 14 so that there`s not as much effect of their parents` relationship on them.”

For their study, Gager and her colleagues analysed the results of a national survey involving nearly 7,000 married couples in the US.

Between 1992 and 1994, the mothers, fathers and children, aged 10 through 17, were asked about their relationships with each other.

About a decade later, between 2001 and 2004, the children, now aged 20 to 27, were surveyed about their relationships with people they were dating (but not living with).

In the first survey, the parents and children were asked to rate statements about the “warmth” and closeness of their relationships, while in the second one, the grown-up children had to answer questions regarding relationship satisfaction and how much conflict they were having with their dating
partners.

“The study gets at the basic perceptual aspects in mating,” said psychologist Jon Maner, of Florida State University, who headed the team.

“It shows how quickly, strongly and automatically people are attuned to physical attractiveness whether looking for mates or guarding their mates from potential rivals,” he added in an interview.

Maner and his team, who published their findings in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, discovered that people tend to fixate on attractive faces within the first half-second of seeing them before sizing them up as a possible mate or rival.

In the study university students were shown pictures of very attractive or average-looking people for one second before being asked to look at something else. By measuring people’s reaction time, Maner and his team were able to determine that half a second is all it takes to decide if someone is attractive.

The researchers also noticed that people fixated on attractive faces for half a second longer after the one second time limit.

Single people in the study were interested in members of the opposite sex.

“These are the kind of people we might prefer as romantic partners, but it doesn’t mean we’d be able to have a relationship with them because highly-attractive people are very sought after,” said Maner.

But people in committed relationships who viewed the pictures were interested in attractive members of the same sex.

“These are the type of people we are jealous of and vigilant towards, worrying about infidelity as we try to guard our mates,” Maner explained.

The study also showed the pitfalls of visual fixation, including negative effects on self-esteem when looking at an attractive person of the same sex. Maner said the negativity could potentially be linked to illnesses such as bulimia.

Another pitfall is that people may become less satisfied in their current relationships.

“The evidence shows when we see attractive alternatives to our partners it can make us feel less satisfied and less committed with our current partner, which clearly has implications for relationship success,” said Maner.

Viagra for Romance

A panel of federal advisers will soon wrestle with a question that has bedeviled poets, philosophers and generations of frustrated men: What do women want?

That enigma will be part of a Food and Drug Administration committee’s deliberations on June 18 when it considers endorsing the first pill designed to do for women what Viagra did for men: boost their sex lives.

A German pharmaceutical giant wants to sell a drug with the unsexy name “flibanserin”.

The prospect of the drug’s approval has triggered debate over whether the medication represents a long-sought step toward equity for women’s health or the latest example of the pharmaceutical industry fabricating a questionable disorder to sell unnecessary drugs.

“Achieving a happy and healthy sex life can be a real and important problem for some women,” said Amy Allina of the National Women’s Health Network.

“But we have lots of questions about the pink Viagra.”

To know whether she loves you or not?

Today, guys find it more difficult to know whether the girl whom they are dating or with whom they are seriously in love shares the same feeling for him or not. Now-a-days, girls have made it trend to flirt out with guys openly. In case your girl too is putting you in a confusing state of “she does” or “she does not” then here are some tips to figure out whether she really loves you or she is just being nice to you.

Signs to Know She Loves You

Given below are some ways to know if she likes you and want to carry on a long-term relation with you, very important:

• If she cares for you and always take interest in your activities then she truly loves you.
• If you come to know from her family and friends that she often brags about you shows her love for you.
• If a girl tries to get closer to you by touching your hands, shoulders or cheeks means she likes you.
• If she keeps staring you when the conversation is on depicts that she likes you and want to say something but is shy of that.
• When a girl blushes on your talks and keep praising you in front of your friends then she loves you.
• When a girl does not respond to the messages or calls given by you it means she is trying to avoid you.
• If she doesn’t want to declare it in public or make some excuses when caught by your close friend in public by saying, “ he’s my friend”, shows her disinterest in you.
• If she never praises you and keeps counting flaws in you means she’s trying to dissolve the relation by taking these flaws as the base.
• A girl is deeply in love with a guy is she accepts his family no matter how they are.
• When she talks to you very nicely after a long time means she is in need of you and is talking to you merely for your company as she has no other solution.
• If she always encourage and motivate you to go ahead with your plans then she is an ideal lover and is sincerely attached with what you want from your life.
• If she wants to spend some time with you and want to help you out in every project or assignment means her love for you.

How to know he loves you or not?

Girls are a bit apprehensive when it comes to their relationship with a guy. It has been noted that men hesitate to express their love or feelings and end up laying a false belief for themselves. It is not only difficult but even more complex to analyze what a man desires and what is going in his mind. The question whether he loves me or not usually bothers every girl. But, with one ideal solution it is possible to know the actual love of the guy for you.

Tips to Know if He Loves You

Don’t worry damsels, here are some useful tips to know whether your mate/partner or lover really loves you or not:

• A very obvious one when he takes interests in your matters like work schedule, it means he is really concerned with you and loves you.
• Whenever a guy keeps a track on your habits, remembers whatever you do and say simply indicates his love for you.
• When a guy wants to spend more time with you, dates out with you at places of your choice and share the your favorite pastimes then he is madly in love with you.
• If he gives more importance to his friends even if you are sick or in need of him shows his lack of interest in you.
• Changing of topic when you discuss about your future with him is not a good sign of a healthy relationship with your love.
• If he doesn’t want to spend time with you or don’t ever want to go out with you in public and never introduces you to his friends mean he does not love you.
• When he calls you or message you just to chitchat with you means he deeply loves you and was finding any reason to talk to you.
• If he is really concerned about you and loves you then he would always take out time from his busy schedule.
• When he keeps looking you when you are around and suddenly takes off his eyes when you look at him shows he’s in love with you.
• When he praises about you to his friends, family and others means he truly loves you.
• His every action will make you believe he loves you.
• If he changes his plans or cancels them last minute then he is surely avoiding you.
• If he is trying to be friendly with you and tries to make an effort to know more about you shows signs of love for you.
• You can make out from a person’s eyes. The person in love with you has special shine in his eyes when he’s talking to you.

Do you have any other opinion in this regard?

Valentine's day ideas and tips

If you are aspiring for an exquisite Valentine’s Day then just go through the touching valentine ideas or tips to make an ideal valentine’s day. These are just straight forward ideas and tips for valentine’s day.

1. A simple ‘I Love You’ with a kiss can set an awesome mood for a Valentine’s Day.
2. Decorate his/her house with hearts, bows and ribbons.
3. Make arrangements for surprise flower bouquets.
4. Cook a dinner for two and decorate the room with heart-shaped candles.
5. Gift him/her with velvet full of fresh Valentine day’s chocolates.
6. A romantic note asking him/her to be your valentine.
7. Send sweet love quotes.
8. Make your own Valentine’s Day card which expresses your feelings.
9. Create a scrapbook ‘recollection collection’ and fill it with love letters, photographs, cherished mementos, etc.
10. A CD of his/her favorite songs.
11. A jewelry gift is awesome. A heart shaped locket for the lady love and a silver bracelet for him is just perfect.
12. Plan a special dinner for him/her either in a garden or a boat. A candle light dinner is just unforgettable.
13. Pamper your sweetheart by gifting her a spa session.
14. Pot a plant that will grow and loom for her.
15. Spend loads of quality time with him/her and clandestine visits to romantic gateways.
16. Gift him/her a nice cell phone for keeping endless communication.
17. Gift her a beautiful evening gown or apparel.
18. Dance with your valentine on Martina McBride’s ‘Valentine’.
19. Include a chocolate dessert in your romantic dinner.
20. Create a love song CD full of Valentine’s Day songs.
21. Send flowers at workplace or home to him/her.
22. If he/she loves gadgets then gift a digital camera.